QuickBooks: To Use or Not to Use

Since 1992, Intuit’s QuickBooks Desktop Pro in its various iterations has been the go-to accounting system for many independent publishers and other small business owners. I have used it since 1995, when I started my publishing company. It was well-known for being designed for nonaccountants, and I was certainly one of those. 

I took a three-session class to learn the program and found it very user-friendly. Changes by Intuit, however, have caused many to consider other competitors’ programs instead. My nightmare experience with recent developments is worth knowing if you’re considering whether to stay with QuickBooks or, especially if you’re a new user, to start with another system.

My first version of QuickBooks was a standalone system with disks that I loaded onto my computer. Over the years, I upgraded to newer versions, still disks, my last being QuickBooks Desktop Pro 2019, which cost $189 at Sam’s Club. This version was different in that it required a connection to an Intuit account in order to work. I didn’t upgrade beyond that because most of the updates concerned payroll, and I am a solopreneur. Each version that I bought, though, was the same as the previous one for the features I required, so there was no new learning curve.

Imagine my surprise when in January, 2026, I tried to log into the program only to get an error message stating that it didn’t recognize my license number. A call to Intuit revealed that they no longer supported this version; therefore, I was not able to use it.

“Why not?” I asked the tech support person. “Microsoft stopped supporting Microsoft Money in 2011, but I have continued using it for my personal accounting. They stopped supporting Windows 10 and other prior operating systems, but my old computers still work just fine. Why can’t I continue to use Desktop Pro 2019 since I paid for it?”

“You’ll have to upgrade to one of our other products,” she said.

“What are the features in each of them?” I asked. “Your website doesn’t include this information.”

“What features do you need?”

“Everything in Desktop Pro 2019 except for payroll. That means Chart of Accounts, Accounts Receivable and Payable, Invoicing, Inventory, Check Register, Customer List, Product List, and Financial Reports. I am a solopreneur and the only user.”

“I recommend that you get Desktop Pro Enterprise Silver,” she said. “You’ll be able to use it on your desktop.”

“Where is that on your website? I see only Gold at $2210 per year, Platinum at $2717 per year, and Diamond at $5364 per year—definitely geared for large companies or accountants handling multiple companies.”  

“It’s not on there,” she said. “It would be $166 per month.”

“$166 per month? That’s $1992 per year.” I paid $189 for seven years of Desktop Pro 2019 usage.

“But you’ll be able to have three users,” she returned.

Once again, I reminded her that I was the only user.

“Do you want Enterprise Silver?”

“I guess I’ll have to try it,” I said, knowing I needed to get my end-of-year reports at the very least. One month of this subscription would give me the time I needed to research other programs.

After purchasing QuickBooks Desktop Enterprise Silver, the migration team helped me transfer over my backup file. I was thrilled to see the familiar flow chart on the home page and the menu bar looking exactly the same as it always had.

But I soon discovered that this version allowed 30 users and multiple companies. This was definitely geared for large firms and professional accountants and was way beyond my needs.

I spent the next two days researching other accounting software programs.  A Forbes article recommended Oracle NetSuite, Xero, Zoho Books, Freshbooks, and Sage Intacct as the five best alternatives to QuickBooks. All were online and around the same monthly charge ($70 per month), but they did not have attractive layouts and some lacked one needed feature or another.

A user on an online forum stated that she was still using a very old version of QuickBooks without any problems. I decided to see if QuickBooks Desktop Pro 2010, a true standalone, was on one of my old computers. Unfortunately, it wasn’t. I tried to reload it, but it needed a program called Flash to install first. Flash has been out of existence since 2020 and I couldn’t figure out how to bypass it in the loading process.

I called Intuit back and stated that Desktop Enterprise Silver was overkill and again reiterated that I was the only user.

“But you’re an accountant,” the tech support person said, “and Desktop Enterprise Silver allows you to handle 30 users and multiple companies.”

“As I mentioned, I’m not an accountant,” I said yet again. “I’m the only user.”

Despite listing QuickBooks under the Small Business heading on their website, it was obvious that they were pursuing large firms and accounting companies that could pay the high monthly fees. The sole proprietors and small business owners were now an afterthought.

“You can have Intuit do your bookkeeping for you,” he returned.

“How much is that?” I asked out of curiosity. I had no intention of anyone doing my bookkeeping besides myself.

“$59 per month.”

“No, thanks,” I told him. “I’ll continue doing it on my own.”

“What features do you need?”

I reeled off the list once again: “Chart of Accounts, Accounts Receivable and Payable, Inventory, Check Register, Customer List, Product List, and Financial Reports.”

“Then maybe you should use QuickBooks Essentials,” he said. “That has everything you mentioned.”

“So why wasn’t that suggested when I called before?” I asked.

“Most accountants want the features of the Desktop versions,” he said.

“Again, I am not an accountant. How much is QuickBooks Essentials?”

“It’s $75 per month, but right now you can get three months at half-price--$37.50 per month.”

“What does it look like?” I searched their website for it. “I’m accessing the demo, but it’s not a demo. Just sales talk like ‘Expert guided setup you can rely on,’ ‘Maximum deductions for tax savings,’ ‘Save time for more accurate books,’ and ‘Crush your sales goals.’”

“Do you want me to set it up?”

If I had to go to a whole new system, I told myself, it might as well be with one that had all the required features. In addition, I theoretically wouldn’t have to worry about incompatibility with my backup file. “Okay, I’ll try it,” I muttered. “Please cancel the Enterprise Silver version. I want my money back.”

“I’ll process QuickBooks Essentials then send you to the migration team. You’ll have to talk to Billing about a refund.”

Of course….

“I’ll send you a link to QuickBooks Essentials once I set it up.”

A few minutes later, his message with the link showed up in my inbox. When I clicked on it, this is what I saw:

“That doesn’t even look like a software program,” I protested. “Why can’t it have the look and feel of Desktop Pro?”

“It’s an online version,” he returned. “It has all the features of Desktop Pro 2019.”

“That layout doesn’t look like QuickBooks at all.”
          “I can download the Classic View app for you.”

Classic View? I had high hopes that this would be my good old Desktop Pro flowchart layout. “Go ahead, please.”

He downloaded the app and my Essentials screen suddenly changed to one similar to the previous design. “That is not an improvement. Are there any manuals or training?”

“No manuals. You can get one of our experts to help you.”
          “And how much is that?”

“$25.00 an hour.”

“No, thanks.”

I was again connected with the migration team. I told the tech that I wanted to migrate the file from my backup drive and not the one on Enterprise Silver to ensure correct migration.

“Oh, no, I’ll take the one from Enterprise Silver,” she said.

“Please let me use my backup file,” I insisted, but my objections fell on yet another set of deaf ears.

She began migrating the file from Enterprise Silver. When it finished, she said, “Now log in and check your data.”

“What’s the URL for direct access?” I asked and explained that I had only the link that the previous tech had sent me via email.

“Just use that,” she said.

“You mean I have to go into the tech’s email message in order to link to my accounting program?” But I did as she said then gaped in surprise at the screen, which displayed as the post-Classic View version. “The tech downloaded the Classic View for me. Where did it go?”

“We’re not using that anymore. Everyone using Essentials is on the Modern View.”

“So why did he download the app onto my account?”

“Please check your data.”

With a sigh, I checked and saw names in the customer file and payments in the check register. “Looks okay so far.”

After we got off the phone, I took a closer look. The file had not transferred correctly. I was fuming! That’s what I had feared with moving to another company’s program and if the file wasn’t loaded from my backup drive.

I quickly printed all the reports that I needed for the 2025 taxes and my CPA from Desktop Enterprise Silver, which was still live. At least things will be correct for the IRS.

Since then, I have loaded transactions into QuickBooks Essentials even though the menus aren’t in a logical order and I’m spending a lot of time just figuring out where everything is. In addition, I don’t want to have to start all over again with another company’s software. I will leave the prior years’ info as is and add a correction factor into the account balance based on the totals in my bank statements. I still don’t have a proper login URL. I’m too exhausted from this ordeal to call them back for one yet.

Going through this transition was a nightmare. A colleague who had the Essentials Classic View is now totally lost with the Modern View. Everything is rearranged. I wouldn’t be surprised at all if Intuit changes the layout again.

So, if you’re planning to use QuickBooks for your small business, be aware of the problems I had with the software and Tech Support. If you’re starting from scratch, you may not run into issues beyond trying to teach yourself the program, but you may want to test out the others I mentioned to see if any are more user-friendly. They are in direct competition with QuickBooks Essentials, offer a free trial period, and their monthly charge is about the same.

If you’re with another accounting software, though, and are switching to QuickBooks or going from one version of QuickBooks to another, take care. Your data may be at risk of corruption. And having to pay a high monthly charge rather than a few hundred dollars for years of use is aggravating.

Intuit's shift from standalone versions of QuickBooks Desktop Pro aimed at nonaccountant small businesses to a subscription-based model aimed at large companies and accounting firms has really changed the game for many loyal users. We are facing challenges with the complicated online versions, rising costs, and customer service that doesn’t seem to recognize or care about our needs. Intuit’s focus on premium subscriptions has hindered the accessibility and user-friendliness that originally made QuickBooks so popular. Intuit should pay attention to the diverse needs of all its customers so they don’t lose touch with the very people who helped them succeed in the first place.

The Hidden Costs of Self-Publishing: What Every Author Should Know

David dreamed of writing a book about the latest trends in his field. He had some new angles to present that other authors hadn’t covered. To fulfill that dream, he spent two years writing the manuscript. He looked forward to the additional revenue stream this book could produce.

After he completed the draft, a colleague advised him to get an editor. He did so, even though, at $4,200, it was more expensive than he had expected. When the editor told him that cover design, typesetting, and proofreading were the next steps, requiring an investment of around another $5,000-$6,000, he was taken aback.

The editor suggested that he publish his work as an e-book, which could be formatted for a very low cost, but David didn’t want an e-book. He wanted physical copies to hand out to clients and potential clients and to make himself a thought leader in his niche.

As a result, he abandoned the idea of self-publishing, feeling that he had invested too much already. And since he didn’t intend to write another book and had no knowledge about seeking out a traditional publisher, his dream of an additional revenue stream was crushed.

Have you found yourself in David’s shoes?

Amazon and other platforms have made self-publishing appealing to many writers for both fiction and nonfiction. No more waiting for years while your manuscript makes the rounds of agents and publishers.

Yes, you can upload your files for free, but many writers overlook the “hidden” costs of bringing a book to market. As a result, they stop in the middle of the process because they don’t have or want to spend the money needed to complete it—costs they wouldn’t incur if they published traditionally.

To be financially successful, a self-published book, whether fiction or non-fiction, must look like it came from a New York house. But before considering self-publishing, it’s necessary to be aware of the financial investment involved, which will hopefully be recouped with proper marketing.

Requirements

Three types of professionals are required to produce a quality book:

1.       Editor(s)

2.      Cover designer

3.     Typesetter

 

Editor(s)

The editorial phase is one most self-publishers overlook. Or they rely on programs like Grammarly and ProWriting Aid, thinking that grammar, spelling, and punctuation are the only things that need review.

In reality, a book needs thorough editing. There are several levels:

Developmental editing: A developmental edit concerns the big picture. It addresses structure, organization, focus on the intended audience, logical flow, coherence of thought, and content.

Content Editing: Content editing is sometimes classified as the same as developmental editing, since it may include removal of obsolete information or repetitious material or addition of information that has been left out. It can also take into account the accuracy of the content itself and the claims made. Content errors can destroy your credibility!

Line Editing: This focuses on style, sentence structure, clarity, and flow to ensure easy readability.

Copy Editing: Now we get to the nitty-gritty of checking for grammar, punctuation, spelling, and formatting.

Proofreading: Don’t skip this step! Once the book is typeset, a review for any remaining errors, typos, and inconsistencies is in order. Nothing is worse for a reader than to wade through grammar, spelling, punctuation, and formatting mistakes.

Do you need all these levels? Maybe. The average cost to edit a 250-page book is $1,000 to $5,000, depending on the type of edit and the complexity of the material. At the very least, though, your book needs a copy edit and a proofread. This definitely can fall into the $3,000-$5,000 range or more, depending on your content. Be prepared to pay this if you hope to publish a quality book that will make an impact.

One way to save money is to have a colleague act as your content editor. That person should be an expert in your field or genre who can provide the required perspective on the accuracy of your work. Ideally, there may be some way you can help this person, so, if possible, try to create a reciprocal arrangement. You can do the same for the copyeditor and the proofreader. 

Cover Designer

Remember the old saying, “Don’t judge a book by its cover”? It’s bad advice when it comes to attracting readers. They DO judge books by their covers. This is especially true for fiction. You may have the greatest content or story ever written, but if the cover is a dud, the book won’t sell.  

Too many new authors I’ve come across lately think all they need to do is produce a home-grown cover on a program like Canva. If there ever were a necessary place to spend your dollars, this is it.

Professional cover designers consider the book's genre/field, target audience, overall tone, the typography and its size and placement, imagery, color palette and color saturation, and layout. If you want your cover to be memorable and attract readers, don’t create it yourself unless you’re a graphics designer.

Typesetting

This is another area that requires substantial investment. For a 250-page book, expect to pay around $2,500. It can be more for complex text that takes several review cycles.

The interior layout of your book needs to look professional, too. For print versions, the items to consider are the following:

    ·   font selection

·   headers and footers

·   chapter title design

·   spacing between lines

·   margin settings

·   placement of images

·   elimination of widows and orphans (one line of a paragraph left by itself at the bottom or top of a page)

·   word stacks (the same word appears one above the other)

·   rivers (a visible empty streak appearing diagonally across a page)

In addition, each page must terminate on the same line except for chapter endings.

If your book doesn’t demonstrate a professional level of typesetting, the readers may not notice, but reviewers will.

Typesetting is a time-consuming process that requires the right software, such as Microsoft Publisher or InDesign, which are page layout programs that allow for proportional spacing. Word processing programs like Microsoft Word do not allow for proportional spacing; therefore, you will find gaps between words if they don’t fit properly on a line. In addition, they are unstable for any text that includes graphics unless you know how to anchor them to the page properly, and this is a high-level skill. 

Author Copies

If you do any speaking engagements, book signings, trade shows, or other in-person events, you’ll need copies of your book to sell to attendees. While you’ll receive an author discount from Amazon, for example, this is yet another cost you’ll have to incur.

The Bottom Line

The bottom line is simple: If you don’t have the finances to see the project through to the end, save yourself the frustration of having spent so much time writing only to realize you can’t or don’t want to go further.

On the other hand, if you have a quality-looking book that your target audience needs, you can earn your investment back over time with proper marketing, much of which you can do for free. Some free strategies are social media, article and email marketing, guest podcasting, speaking engagements, book signings, blogging and guest blogging, and videos. Yes, this can be time-consuming but well worth it if you believe your book will make an impact.

I hope this message finds you well. It’s been a while since I last posted here, and I want to thank you for your patience during my hiatus. Life has a way of taking us on unexpected journeys, but I’m thrilled to announce that I am back and ready to dive into blogging about writing and publishing nonfiction books once again.

I’ve missed sharing insights, tips, and inspiration with all of you, and I’m excited to rekindle our discussions. Starting now, you can expect regular posts filled with the latest trends, helpful resources, book reviews, and practical advice to guide you on your writing journey. Whether you’re just starting out or looking to polish your manuscript, there’s something here for everyone.

Your feedback and engagement are always appreciated, and I encourage you to reach out with any topics you’d like me to cover or questions you have about the writing and publishing process.

I look forward to hearing from you!

Smart Financial Tips for Writers

It's that time when we writers start thinking about our plans for the next year. This includes how to manage our finances. I am lucky enough to have a great guest blogger this time, Brittany Fisher, a Certified Public Accountant who has spent more than 20 years working in the accounting field. After gaining extensive knowledge of personal finance, taxes, and financial literacy, Brittany decided to start her own site, Financiallywell.info. Here she hopes to help anyone who may benefit from her advice and expertise. Check it out after you read her article. 

  

Managing your finances as a writer can be tricky, especially if you do freelance work and have several invoices and payments to keep up with. Getting organized is essential, and you can choose from a variety of apps and online tools that will help you stay on top of both your money and your assignments.

If you’re ready to turn your writing into a full-time job, it’s important to keep your finances in order so you can build up a savings account that will give you peace of mind as you work on turning your dream into a career.

Here are a few things to consider when it comes to managing your finances as a writer.

Treat Your Writing like a Business

 There are lots of career options available to skilled writers; you might choose to write engaging copy for businesses to share on their websites or in ads, or you might take on freelance jobs that allow you to do something different with each project.

However you choose to start your career, it’s important to treat it like a business so that you can stay on top of your responsibilities to the IRS. Starting a business comes with several steps that vary depending on the state you live in, so do a little reading on how to start a company with ZenBusiness.

Keep Track of Your Income

Forming a business structure can help you keep your personal and professional funds separate from one another, which is an essential step, but it’s still important to have a reliable way to keep track of your income, especially if you’ll be doing freelance work and sending out invoices to multiple entities.

You might utilize accounting software that allows you to easily input your expenses and income or start a filing system in your home office where you can keep important paperwork organized and easily accessible.

It’s also a good idea to keep a detailed spreadsheet that lists all of the paid projects you’re working on, their due dates, and their invoice number.

Create Multiple Income Streams

Whether you want to do freelance work or ghostwrite children’s books, it’s a good idea to keep multiple streams of income going, as most creative careers have ups and downs. It can be challenging to manage smaller gigs while working on a big project such as a novel, but doing so will give you peace of mind that you’ll always have something going, even during slower times of the year.

You might set up an account on a freelancer site so you can keep an eye out for jobs or create a profile on a professional social media site like LinkedIn so you can network and make connections with like-minded people who can benefit your job search. You can also connect with other authors via their websites.

Create a Budget for Marketing

No matter what type of writing job you’re going to take on, it’s important to create a budget for marketing your projects and skills. Writers often have to tackle advertising and PR for themselves, and the process can become costly if you don’t have a solid plan in place first.

Do some research on the type of marketing you’ll need to do for yourself, such as creating book trailers and social media ads, printing promotional materials, hosting book signings, or putting together a portfolio of your best work. This will give you a good idea of how much you’ll need to spend in a given year.

Working as a writer can be a very fulfilling job, but it’s important to protect yourself by starting a business and keeping careful track of your income streams. With a little planning, you can turn your dream job into a successful career.

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Judged by Its Cover

Over the past several decades, many authors have made a concerted effort to be inclusive of other cultures in their books and with positive representation. That’s why I was very disturbed to read in Publishers’ Weekly that YA author Alexandra Duncan felt it her duty to cancel publication of her manuscript, Ember Days, because of cultural appropriation.

Duncan has been interested in the cultures where she lives in the south. She sought to write about the folk magic traditions of the Gullah Cheechee, and her main character is Naomi, the granddaughter of a powerful Gullah conjure woman.

When Duncan posted the book cover on Facebook, she received backlash from fellow writers, even though apparently none of them had read the manuscript. She fell victim to their comments accusing her of participating in the erasure of this group, saying to Publishers’ Weekly, “I definitely struggled with whether it was okay for me to write about a culture outside my own and especially about the difficult topic of passing, which Naomi does for part of the book while going undercover in an all-white magical society….”

She added that “In my misguided attempt to write a book that was inclusive of all cultures of Charleston and the Low Country,” she hadn’t realized, despite her copious research and conversations about the book, her “limited worldview as a white person” led her to think she could accurately represent this culture.

She finished by saying, “Clearly, the fact that I did not see the signs of the problem with my book’s premise…is evidence that I was not the right person to write this story. I am deeply ashamed….”

I think her critics are sadly mistaken and that Alexandra Duncan should not have been made to feel as though she committed the cultural crime of the century. The late mystery writer Tony Hillerman, a white man, has a whole series of books that take place on the Navajo Nation. The two main characters are Navajo Nation police officers.

Since his death, his daughter, Anne Hillerman, has carried on the series, having written five books to date. She has added a third Navajo main character, the wife of one of the officers, who is a cop with the county sheriff’s department. Neither Tony nor Anne has ever been accused of cultural appropriation. Quite the contrary. This series, which is my favorite, has been on the Bestseller lists, and both Anne and her father have been lauded at book fairs throughout Arizona and New Mexico for their work.

How are authors supposed to include diverse characters in their books if they are not of those ethnicities and risk backlash as a result? Does that mean that a black author can write only about African-Americans? That he or she can’t write a book with a lead character from another race?

What about an author including a person of the same race but from another time period? Almost no one who is alive today is part of any culture from prior to one hundred years ago. Should authors be prevented from writing historical novels because they are not from those time periods?

Should James Michener never have published his blockbuster novels Hawaii, Sayonara, The Bridges of Toko Ri, Poland, or any of the others that take place in different countries?

And consider James Clavell. Should he never have published his bestselling novels Shogun, Tai Pan, Noble House, or King Rat because they were set in Asia? Should Michener’s and Clavell’s books be banned because of “cultural appropriation”?

Another writer colleague of mine, who is Hispanic, wrote a book with a main character who was a little white girl living with her family in Tennessee during the Depression. Should she be “deeply ashamed” because she is not a little white girl from Tennessee during the Depression and therefore “not the right person to write this book”?

These ideas can be taken to extremes.

According to the Oxford Dictionary, cultural appropriation is “the unacknowledged or inappropriate adoption of the customs, practices, ideas, etc., of one people or society by members of another and typically more dominant people or society.” Shouldn’t accusations of cultural appropriation go to intent? Writing about a culture to educate and inform is a far cry from a white person showing up in blackface at a Halloween party.

Every author I know who writes about other cultures has people from those cultures who act as advisors and review the manuscripts to ensure accuracy. This is a needed partnership. What’s wrong with the author including an Author’s Note to explain the research, name the advisors, and clarify why he or she is writing about this topic?

Perhaps I am sensitive to this issue because I, too, have Navajo characters in two of my novels. While the protagonists in both are Caucasian, the male lead in one is a Navajo astrobiologist. This character was largely inspired by Fred Begay (aka Clever Fox), the first Navajo nuclear physicist, whom I interviewed decades ago and who gave me the ideas for some of the plot concepts in the book, which I have finally written and is due out next year.

In my middle-grade series, the first book takes place on the Navajo Nation. While, as I mentioned, the protagonist is white, the story has Navajo characters and seeks, as do the Hillerman books, to show the culture in a positive light and that both cultures’ viewpoints of the world are valid.

Why Navajo characters? First, I have a master’s degree in Cultural Anthropology. Second, the Navajo culture has proven so resilient. In 1900, because of government and religious interference, there were only 20,000 tribal members. Today, there are over 250,000. They have kept their language, religion, and traditions and even have a junior college on the reservation. That they have overcome their previous oppression and trauma should be shouted from the mountaintops.

The second book in the middle-grade series takes place in Lincoln, England. Lincoln is my ex-husband’s home town and I lived there for a few years. Should I have not written this novel because I am not British?

The third book takes place at Mission San Juan Capistrano. My main character in all three books sees ghosts, and she’s going encounter one who is a Native American girl killed in the 1830 earthquake. Should I not write this book because I wasn’t living at Mission San Juan Capistrano in 1830 or a Native American?

My personal view is that Alexandra Duncan’s book was unjustly criticized and it should be published. She shouldn’t have buckled to the criticism. It would be very educational to people like me who are not from the south and have never heard of the Gullah culture or the white magical societies. If the characters were portrayed in a negative light, I could understand the opposition. But they don’t seem to be and now we are going to miss out.

What a tragedy.

Reference

PW editors. (2020, June 25). Removed: Upcoming YA novel Ember Days canceled by author. Publishers Weekly. https://www.publishersweekly.com/pw/by-topic/childrens/childrens-book-news/article/83691-upcoming-ya-novel-ember-days-canceled-by-author.html

Surviving the COVID-19 Pandemic

The COVID-19 Virus pandemic has hit the world hard and many of us have had a taste of quarantine for at least a few weeks. If you have kids at home, you and they are no doubt going stir crazy. No school, no sports, no friends to see in person, and worst of all, for you, possibly no job. 

With your layoff, you may be experiencing a loss of purpose in addition to a loss of income. This can definitely cause great stress and anxiety, both mentally and financially. But this situation is not the new normal. It’s the new temporary. We’re all in this together. Adaptability is important.

For those who work from home or can do so during this quarantine, the stress is reduced. For the kids, however, especially those from warm climates, being confined to the house is a new, different, and unwanted experience. I’m originally from Portland, Oregon, where it rains at least eight months out of the year, if not more. Kids spend practically the entire winter indoors. I’m used to this.

In addition, I spent a year on an oil tanker, where my ex-husband was the chief engineer (like Scotty on Star Trek). We were at sea 36 days at a time, with a 24-hour turnaround when we reached the Persian Gulf. With nowhere to go ashore, we were effectively at sea 72 days before we arrived back in Europe. Talk about an isolated and confined environment!

I had been warned it would be easy to lose one’s mind. They call it “tankeritis.” Since I was a writer, I warded this off by writing a book. That took the entire year. Growing up in a horrible climate and being aboard that tanker were great dry-runs for the circumstances we’re in today.

Know that you are not powerless. You can choose how to navigate and survive COVID-19. Obviously, taking the recommended precautions is in order. But also, focusing on the mindset of looking at the jelly jar half-full rather than half-empty is a strategy that will help you get to the other side of this pandemic unscathed. Easier said than done, you say, but stressing and worrying does no one any good. It only makes the time pass more slowly.

Why not maximize the opportunity. You’ve no doubt binge-watched those shows on TV that you have wanted to catch up on, so seize the day. Get dressed in the morning to set a tone for the day. If you’re self-employed and usually deal with clients face-to-face, think about meeting with them online through a program like Zoom (download for free at www.zoom.us) or Facetime. If your job can be done remotely in any way, shape, or form, ask your boss for permission to do so.

Some employees have already realized that they want to work from home permanently. They have few interruptions and so are much more productive. The savings on wear and tear on their cars and on commuting time also contributes to what they know will be their future psychological wellbeing. Employers are likely to be more open to this idea as well.

If you’ve “always wanted to write a book,” now’s your chance. Go for it! And professional writers can use this time to increase productivity. Begin a new article or book. Edit material you have in progress. Write posts for your blog or start a podcast. I’m in the process of adding a voiceover to a webinar I just created.

Or take the opportunity to do all the things around your house you’ve been putting off for months or even years because you didn’t have time. Clean out closets, cupboards, drawers, files, and the garage. Read books (you can download free e-books from bookbub.com). Get your taxes organized. Catch up on your hobbies. Put photos in albums or boxes or scan them into your computer. Take some free classes online you’ve never thought about. Online resources are more abundant than ever.

Dig out your puzzles and board games. Have tournaments. Expand those activities by having a virtual game night on Zoom so your friends and relatives can play. Here’s a link: https://www.bustle.com/p/how-to-have-a-zoom-game-night-22639026 for some online games.

If you have kids, help them with their homework. Exercise with them. Take them on Internet tours of famous places related to the topics they are studying. Rather than reading younger kids a bedtime story, tell them one from your childhood. These activities will take your mind off your worries and provide a sense of accomplishment. If you need help, get on the Next Door app and ask.

One mom on Next Door in my neighborhood has a daughter who turned nine last week. She asked the community to organize a car parade to come by her house at an appointed time. Several people decorated their cars with posters and balloons, and I joined in the parade. We honked our horns and yelled happy birthday. Her daughter was thrilled and we had a great time helping her celebrate her special day!

Others have put teddy bears in their windows so that the kids can count them on their walks around the neighborhood, since we are still allowed to do that. Some have put painted rocks around the green belt that runs through our area and in their yards. This is a great activity to keep kids occupied, both with painting the rocks and with finding them. And others are leaving chalk art on sidewalks.

Another great idea is to carry out “Formal Friday.” It’s like date night, only with your family or someone on Zoom or Facetime. Eat meals on good china. Have a picnic in your living room or outside if the weather allows. Try new recipes, maybe even some more complex ones that you might not normally have time to make.

Using something called Morning Pages to clear your mind, improve creativity and productivity, and for self-reflection (see https://www.lavendaire.com/morning-pages/) can help to alleviate stress.

Establish an evening ritual of sharing at least one “high” and one “low” of the day with your partner or as a family. This opens up communication and allows exploration of how you are handling the events of the day. It’s important that parents participate to set an example and to allow their children a better understanding that adults do have challenges. Communicating them in a supportive environment is helpful.

Of course, adults should be cautious not to burden their children with worries over “lows” related to major problems. Those who live alone can accomplish this communication with a family member or friend via Zoom, e-mail, Facetime, etc.

Remember, this situation is only temporary and not the new normal. It may last a few months, but eventually, we’ll get back to our old schedules. By making good use of this pause on life we have now, when you do get back to work, your free time will really be your own. And, if you turn this catastrophe into an opportunity to try new things, some of these activities might stick around and enhance your life long after COVID-19 has passed.

Don't Let the Naysayers Get You Down

If you’re a serious writer, you no doubt not only love to write but you also love to read. I know I do. Has anyone criticized you for either? And if you’re a professional writer and have a home office, has anyone assumed that you “aren’t working”?

Regarding the former, when I was growing up, we had many books in our house. My mother bought them for us for various occasions and also just because.

       As an adult, I started my home library with books from childhood, college, and grad school, and have kept accumulating them ever since. Enough shelf space was a must in the three houses I have owned.

 It took me a month to pack my approximately three thousand tomes when I moved from my previous residence to my current one. Many of these and the hundreds I’ve acquired since are signed by the authors.

My library is my pride and joy. Fiction, science fiction, nonfiction, science, social science, and childhood treasures fill the main one, located across the hall from my living room. Writing, publishing, and marketing categories are in my office. Texts and other academic materials are in a spare bedroom upstairs. Those written by friends and colleagues occupy hallowed shelves in my master bedroom. One cabinet in the upstairs hall houses my beloved Nancy Drew collection.

So imagine my surprise when a psychologist friend visited me and said upon seeing the books in my main library, “Why don’t you get rid of them?”

What?? I thought. Who would suggest such a thing?

And what would she say if she saw all the others?

By her own admission, she doesn’t read. Yes, a non-reader suggested I get rid of my most precious gems!

Then I remembered that this is the same person who said, “You don’t have a job.” This despite my having published over 200 articles in national publications and twenty-nine (soon to be thirty) books, eleven traditionally and the rest through my own small press.

Never mind that I market my work and do speaking engagements, both of which provide good income. And never mind also that I publish other people’s work and coach subject-matter experts in writing books based on their expertise. She certainly has heard my 30-second pitch often enough on the latter at our networking group.

“Writing, publishing, and coaching ARE my jobs,” I told her. And no, I have no intention of getting rid of any of my prized possessions—except marketing and grammar ones that are out-of-date¾and these I replace with new editions.

Regarding working from home, we’ve all heard of actors and musicians being accused by family members and others of not having “real jobs,” but I never expected this comment from someone in my networking group—all of whom are self-employed, including the person in question. The difference is that she goes to an office every day. But because I have a home office and don’t go to another building to work, I “don’t have a job.”

We have to accept that some people just don’t understand us. So what to do about them?

I come from a long line of entrepreneurs. Most are business owners, but many are artists, musicians, and writers. Some are doctors and lawyers in private practice. Mine is definitely an artsy family rather than a science-oriented one. Never have any of my relatives accused me or anyone else who is self-employed of “not having a job.” So I let comments like those of my acquaintance roll off my back.

We’re writers because it’s in our blood. It’s the essence of who we are. It’s our passion. We can’t not write.

If only people like my colleague knew how much time and energy producing an article or chapter takes, not to mention the time and energy involved in marketing for sales and/or new clients. And good writers must be readers.

We work for ourselves because it provides us the freedom to run our own lives and the ability to have unlimited income potential. If you find people criticizing you, ignore them. Don’t let the naysayers get you down.

Heed not only my words but also those of Kimanzi Constable:

“You have to be your biggest cheerleader…. [Don’t] depend on someone else for…for validation from people who don’t understand. …Real strength …starts with you. Don't depend on anyone else for emotional, mental, or entrepreneurial strength” (https://www.entrepreneur.com/article/305563).

So ignore those who don’t understand you. Keep on reading. Build your own library. Continue your writing career.

And believe in yourself. No matter what.